Tuesday, February 17, 2015

How I Met Your Father



My sophomore year of college I had applied to be a resident adviser for my junior year. I got the job and started training that year by doing a hike with a weighted pack for our summer Walk About trip where we would backpack for 10 days. On March 24th I was hot and tired from the hike but I had a party to attend that night for a friend's 20th birthday. I rushed home from our mandatory hike, showered, let my hair air dry resulting in some wild, curly, mane and tossed on jeans and a white polka dot sleeveless top. I walked across the courtyard to my neighbors and into an Alice in Wonderland themed party. 

The party was for my friend Courtney whom I would live with next year and among her guest Brian showed up. I had heard about him but never seen him and I was completely smitten by the baseball cap, hazel eyes, smile, and his laugh. In truth, I hardly talked to him because I was shy when it came to boys but I remember instantly being attracted to him. Brian came in and left almost as quickly for a dinner with a friend. I saw him a couple more times that year in passing but for my sophomore year that was about all the interacted I had with man I was going to marry.

Fast forward to the start of junior year when I was recovering from an injury after spending the summer on crutches. I was on campus weeks before the arrival of other students and trying to unload a storage locker with furniture, dishes, you name it for three gals with just my mom, uncle, and my hobbling self. My roommate suggested I call Brian to ask for help with the move because he had a truck and was already in the area. I never called but I was reminded of Brian. A few days later he showed up at my door looking for my roommates who had not yet arrived. Brian and I chatted and a friendship blossomed. Over the next month he kept coming over to see all of us. 

Somewhere in September Brian asked to go get ice cream. I had NEVER dated, NEVER been asked out, and had NO Clue if ice cream constituted as a date. I went for ice cream, Brian paid. I thought it was a date but never really knew. We went to coffee a few times, Brian started coming to church with a group of friends and I, and I started to connect with this guy. We never talked about our relationship but I found I enjoyed spending time with Brian and liked having him around. 

In October our friend Courtney invited some friends to come to her home in Colorado over a long weekend. Being the studious and never spontaneous person I was I took a leap and bought a ticket. Brian was on the same flight which had a layover in Las Vegas. During our layover our plane broke. We were moved to another plan which also broke. A couple hours later we were moved to a third plane and it broke. I can recall tires not working well, bathrooms not functioning, and by the third plane I did not even hear what was wrong. I sat for over 7 hours in Las Vegas on the floor of an airport with Brian who was calm as ever while I fretted about getting to Colorado, where my luggage was, and why we were not getting on another flight. 

By nightfall Brian being a year older was given a room for the night while I was told to wait for a 5am flight to Arizona and get a connecting flight to Colorado because I was not 21. I felt a bit of panic but Brian talked with someone and managed to get them to give him a suit with two separate bedrooms (what a gentleman) so I could be comfortable and safe. That night I felt like Brian was such a kind, thoughtful, calming guy who had made me laugh all day and taken care of me. He asked me out and I agreed to a date the following night. Brian later told me he kept praying that we could stay just a little longer in Las Vegas so we could spend time together and he could finally ask me out. God was sure listening that night.

Brian took me to an old lighthouse for dinner on our first date.  He made hot chocolate and cookies for dessert and brought a blanket to sit on the beach. We talked, we held hands, and I was pretty sure then and there this guy was husband material. I felt loved and adored by Brian and listened to him recall meeting me with my wild lion hair last March and hearing me laugh my distinctive snorting laugh. It may not have been love at first sight but we each left that party with a mental note of each other and God kept our paths crossing and our relationship growing. 


I am linking up with Andrea from Momfessionals for her Show and Tell series. Today we are all sharing how we met our significant other! So fitting for a post Valentine's Day post!





Monday, February 16, 2015

Egg in a Heart

Egg in a Heart


Our heart shaped Valentine's Day breakfast was so yummy I wanted to share with you today. Along side a fruit salad with blood oranges, bananas, and strawberries we made Eggs in a Basket but cut a heart shape out instead of a circle to make breakfast festive for the holiday. With the extra heart I made toast for Shane because he has an egg allergy and Keith had toast with a scrambled egg. Brian and I enjoyed the breakfast above and it was perfectly simple and delicious!

Ingredients

1 slice of bread (we used a whole wheat Brioche)
1 egg
1/2 T butter
salt and black ground pepper to taste

Directions

1. Using a heart shaped cookie cutter, cut out the center of the slice of bread (make sure you keep the cut out to toast).

2. Melt the butter in a medium saute pan over medium-low heat.

3. Add the bread to the pan and crack the egg into the bread. Add the bread cutouts to the pan to toast. Season with salt and pepper and cook until the egg is almost set. Flip the pieces over and continue to toast until the egg is set and the bread it toasted. Add more butter if needed.

So simple and easy to take a classic and make it festive! You could do this with a shamrock for St. Patrick's Day, a pumpkin on Halloween, or a turkey for Thanksgiving morning! The options are endless!





Friday, February 13, 2015

Friday Favorites: Valentine's Day Traditions

Valentine's Day with little ones is such a fun day! I love the day of love! I try and keep the day simple but still make it special for The Brothers because I want them leaving this home filled with happy fun memories and traditions. My first year as a mama I did not really do a whole lot with my little two week old but the past two years I have been doing a couple fun traditions and am excited to share them with Keith this year! These are my favorite Valentine's Day traditions with The Brothers.

Heart Shaped Breakfast


Last year Shane got to enjoy some heart crossed buns! I made these egg free for my little man because of his food allergy and then found some natural food dye to make these holiday themed for the day!

Heart Attack


I started this last year and am going to keep on with this tradition as long as it delights The Brothers. I picked an area, the kitchen, and decorated it with hearts I had cut out. Shane came downstairs and saw our breakfast nook covered with three dozen large hearts and he was thrilled. He did not stop pointing at them and talked about them for days. I like doing something special the morning of so it's a bit like the joy and anticipation of Christmas morning. 

Valentine's Day Gift





This year The Brothers are getting books as their Valentine's Day gift. Shane loves Curious George and I was happy to find a Valentine's Day one. Keith is getting Happy Valentine's Day, Mouse! because we loved If You Give a Mouse a Cookie and we found this one in a board book edition.

 I embrace the chance to teach my little men about showing affection and love. One day I pray the little ladies they will marry one will feel cherished, delighted in, and adored by the men I am raising. I want to make a HUGE deal of heart shaped meals and cards now to model what it looks like to dote upon those we love and to let my boys feel loved. I hope our Valentine's Day cards to friends, traditional heart shaped meals, decorations, and gifts teaches them two important things to The Brothers. First, I hope they learn that their mama is so glad they are her sons. I am blessed to be their mama and love them wholeheartedly. Secondly, I hope that they feel delighted in and adored and can mirror that to their leading lady one day. 

Happy Valentine's Day!

If you missed my giveaway for a $25 gift card to Rockin' Green make sure to enter here. 

Today I am linking up with Andrea from Momfessionals.





Thursday, February 12, 2015

Thankful Thursday: Valentines Day


I am thankful for my Valentine! Brian and I have spent 10 Valentines Days together now and as my first and only love he still melts my heart.






Wednesday, February 11, 2015

How We Cloth Diaper and a Giveaway

 Today I am sharing a bit about our cloth diaper journey and have a giveaway from Rockin' Green at the end of the post! Even if you are past the diapering stage make sure to scroll down and read about what Rockin' Green has to offer and enter the raffle! A note that no one is paying me to pledge to their brand. I contacted Rockin' Green and they were nice enough to give a $25 dollar gift certificate to one luck reader but all brands and products are my personal choice from tried and true experience!

How We Started Cloth Diaper

Before I had Shane I looked into cloth diapers. I wanted to use less waist, I wanted to try and have something close to nature on his bum, and I wanted to save money. Convincing Brian was really hard but he agreed to give it a try as long as I washed them. My Grandmother and friend Kendra gifted us some newborn size diapers for a baby shower gift and thus started my little "trial" stash of cloth diapers. 

Shane was born with some complications and admitted into the NICU where he stayed for 6 days. While he was in the hospital we used the hospitals diapers, which were Pampers, and the nurses changed every diaper and weighed them so I was very hands off for the start of his life. During his stay Shane developed a bad bacterial diaper rash and we were told he might be allergic to either the wipes, diapers, or some of the cream. We were prescribed a medication and decided to start using the cloth diapers right away when we got home. 

When Shane came home with us we switched him immediately into cloth diapers. We were lucky to have been given some infant one size ones that worked for Shane who was only 5lbs 6oz when at one week. His diaper rash went away and we were committed. Though I intended to cloth diaper for the environment and to cut down on cost the main reason I cloth diaper is for my kids health because I saw the difference having natural cotton on my kids skin made compared to disposable diapers with chemicals. 

What We Use To Cloth Diaper

I tried out several types of cloth diapers to see what worked best with Shane and lucked out that the same brand worked for Keith. Both my kid were small when they were born but Shane is on the slender side and Keith is built thicker. Despite the difference in build we use Bumgenius  diapers and I love them! I like that I can customize the stuffing with various inserts to work for the stage my kids are or for the time of day. They are easy to use. The buttons stay put and my kids cant get them off. They wash well and I liked the feel of the diaper. In addition to cloth diapers I use cloth wipes while we are at home, a diaper sprayer, bottom cleaner, and wet bags for on the go diaper containers. We store the dirty diapers in a basic garbage can with a lid and use a diaper pail liner. I wrote about how we wash our diapers later in this post and there are a few other items needed to get started.






We have 26 diapers that last me about 3 days. I wash the diapers ever 3rd day.


We have 3 packs of these.



I was luck to get this one use from a moms group and payed $20 for it. It makes the little unpleasant task of cleaning soiled diapers off in the toilet a snap.



This was not what we used with Shane for a bottom spray. I am not sure that the product was around then but we have used this for Keith and after trying several brands this is my favorite. It smells so good, it is hydrating, and it works the best at cleaning my kids up. I have tried a handful of products from The Honest Company and always been impressed but this is my very favorite so far. As I have one kid with super sensitive skin I like using organic or chemical free products so the philosophy of this brand is right up my ally. I use I hope to try more of their products in the future. 



I love these bags and know I will use them long after my kids are done with diapers. They are great to store my dry diapers in or an extra outfit. They also hold my wet and dirty diapers but can be used for wet suits, wet and dirty clothing  (potty training or puddle stomping) and they come in several sizes. I have three small and two medium and use them almost every day. 



I have two of these pail liners and use them in a basic garbage can that has a lid that opens with a food pedal. It works great to hold in the dirty diapers, I don't struggle with smell, and they wash up well right along with my dirty diaper load.

Where and Where We Use Cloth Diapers

I use cloth diapers all day long at home and on the go. When we are on a vacation I do switch to disposables but I am careful what brand I use. Shane used cloth diapers at night until he was potty trained. Keith, however, uses disposable diapers at night because they just worked better for him. I looked into finding diapers that did not leak at night but with a newborn who drank a lot and slept long stretch from the start and a toddler who started potty training at the same time we went with what worked. I was totally OK with using one at night on him if it was what he needed. I like cloth but its not flawless. Both cloth and disposable diapers have their pros and cons. We go with what works!

How We Wash Cloth Diapers

This is perhaps what people ask me and cringe about the most. How do you wash the diapers? We wash them in our washing machine and hang dry the covers and dry our inserts. I often laugh at the reactions because I think people have in their minds that I am contaminating my clean laundry with dirty diapers. First, we rinse the diapers off with the sprayer. Then I store the dirty diapers in a separate laundry pail with the pail liner. When I go to wash our diapers I just dump the whole bag out and drop the ban in. We do one rinse cycle to rinse the diapers again then do one cycle on high agitation. They I hand dry the diaper covers and toss the inserts into the dryer. I also use a few tricks on my diapers to keep them clean and fresh that require a few more items.




I have bounced around on a few different diaper detergents. I started with Bumgenius but I did not ever use that on my every day clothing. I also have used Mrs. Meyers on cloth diapers but the measuring was hard as it was not specifically formulated for cloth diapers. I really like Rock'in Green detergent for a couple of reasons. Shane has eczema and his skin can't hand anything harsh. We had to get rid of dryer sheets, start reading labels for ingredients that would irritate his skin, and get as close to nature as possible. This detergent works for us and has helped us with Shane's skin. I like that all of their scents come from a special fragrance house, that does everything from natural distillations and are 100% natural.  This brand is biodegradable, made from recycled materials and packaging, phosphate-free, SLS and Paraben free, and free of optical brightens. I could use if for Keith as a newborn, on Shane with his eczema, and I feel better knowing what I wash Brian and my clothing in is safe. Plus, I like using one bag for everything so when Brian does the laundry he does not need to figure out what to use. Lastly, they offer a 10% off first responded discount  and as a wife of an officer I am so thankful for a little perk that not only saves us money but lets me feel thanked for what my wonderful husband does. 



Every once in a while you need to freshen up cloth diapers, You can use bleach, Dawn soap, or soak your diapers in water but I found Funk Rock works so well to get the stink out. I have also used it a couple times on my towels when they smell a bit like mildew and need to be freshened up.



In place of dryer sheets I simply went without for years. Then I read about these dryer balls to help fluff up my laundry and cut down on drying time. I admit I just discovered them so I am not sure how they hold up over time but for now I am loving them! My inserts do dry faster and my towels are a bit more fluffy. If it saves me some money and allows me to get rid of dryer sheets with chemicals I am committed. I wish I had found these sooner but I am glad I have them now.

Why We Cloth Diaper

There are several reasons we use cloth diapers. I am saving some money. You can read about the cost of diapers here and just like anything it varies depending on brand, the child's needs, and even how much your garbage vs. water expenses are.  For my family, it was less expensive to use cloth. I also know I will be able to sell our cloth diapers when we are finished and get back some of the money we paid.  I knew we wanted more than one child so I save because I did not buy anything new for Keith aside from the bottom wash and detergent whereas if I had used disposable I would have paid for a whole new round of disposable diapers. I know I have spent less using cloth diapers.

Secondly, I have already talked about the need to not have any chemicals near Shane's skin. Dealing with a child that gets itchy and rashes is a challenge. He can flair up with so many other factors so taking laundry and diapers out of the equation makes life a little less complicated. I never wanted to use something that caused a secondary problem like diaper rash or eczema flair ups. I had to buy much more expensive disposable diapers to avoid a rash so by using cloth I know I saved lots of money and was giving Shane the best possible chance at healthy, comfortable skin.

Lastly, I like the environmentally friend factor. I personally like that I am not throwing 1000s of diapers into a land fill. I have used disposable on occasion but I threw a lot less out by mostly using cloth.. I say to each their own on this mater but I really like this point for myself.

Lastly, I found that cloth works so much better! I don't have blow outs with my kids unless they are really sick, they absorb so much better, and I like that I can change them as often as I want because I am not worried about running out of diapers. For me cloth diapers are a great fit for my families health, finances, and overall needs.

On to the giveaway! I contacted Rock in Green to see if they would be interested in giving away a little something to a reader and they were! This week you can enter to win a $25 gift certificate to their store. You can pick from the two products I mentioned or you can try other products for laundry, pet, household, baby, and for your athletic clothing. I am most excited to try their new Sport Funk which is coming soon because I think it would work great for my husbands work out gear. The giveaway runs all week so enter below and you could win!


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Tuesday, February 10, 2015

2015 Valenites

For the past two years I have made Valentine with my sweet Shane. Unfortunately, I never took pictures of the past ones but this year I remembered to! We had a wonderful time and Keith even tried some straw painting! We mimicked our Christmas Cookie Cutter Cards this year and used a heart, everything pink, red, and white and discovered a new way to paint with straws!



Supplies


glue
white, pink, and red construction paper folded in half
pink, red, and white paint
a straw (not pictured)
heart shaped cookie cutter
glitter
plate
wet wipe or wet paper towel for cleanup


Directions

1. Spread the paint color or colors of choice out onto a plate. Dip the heart shape cookie cutter into the paint and stamp onto the constriction paper. 

2. Dip the tip of the straw into the paint and stamp onto the paper for decorations

3. Using the glue, decorate the hearts, around the hearts, write words like "love" or "you and me," then sprinkle with the glitter.

4. Allow to dry then write your Valentine a note!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Lunches for Mama

Today I am sharing the last of four posts on what our family eats for lunches. In November, I shared what I pack from Brian's lunch which he takes almost every day to work. In December I shared what I make for Keith who, at the time, was ten months old. Last month I shared what my picky eater Shane eats. He is the most challenging member of my family to feed. So much so that at the suggestion of our pediatrician we are meeting with a nutritionist next month to talk about more creative ways to expand Shane's food choices and get some protein in him. Today though, I am sharing what I eat for lunch. 

When I make my lunches it is normally 5pm, I am watching The Brothers on my own, and everyone is hungry! Being that the three of us that dine in all eat a bit of a different meal, I have found that simplicity and overlapping is key for our evening meal to run smoothly. In the winter I really like hot meals and quick meals so I try and keep extra or make extras that can be assembled during the rush of the evening. If I can make one item that everyone likes then I can supplement the rest with what I know each of us will eat. These days Keith and I are eating a lot of the same foods these days so most of the time I just need to cut things up a bit smaller and find a way to get fruit, veggies, and protein into Shane. Lunch runs most smoother these days and I have found a way to get a hot meal while avoiding PB and J!

Day 1


Chicken, tomato, cucumber, and ranch salad
apple sauce

Day 2


scrambled eggs with tomato
banana slices

Day 3



whole wheat tortilla 
tomatoes
avocado
cheddar cheese

Day 4


fried egg
fried zucchini
fresh diced tomato

Day 5


whole milk yogurt with strawberries and coconut cashew granola
friend egg
baked tomato with green onion

Other Meal Ideas

apple butternut squash soup
chicken noodle soup
grilled cheese and tomato
taco salads
noodles with chicken, peas, and marinara sauce
caprese salad
leftovers

If you missed the other posts about lunches you can find them below.


 
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